Tell the Wolves I'm Home by Carol Rifka Brunt
Fourteen year old June,
uncomfortable in her own skin does not understand the depth of her beloved
Uncle Finn. Uncle Finn, a gay man, dies of aids in 1987. Before he died, he
painted a portrait of June and her sister Greta titled, "Tell the Wolves
I'm Home." Through the painting, Finn is able to tell his family
everything that he could not say when he was alive.
June and Finn had a special relationship, but the rest of June's family cannot
flush out the stigma of AIDS just as America could not in the 1980s. June was
left in the dark about another very important person in Finn's life, his
partner, or as Greta refers to him, Finn's murderer. June's quest to discover
who her uncle really was begins when Toby contacts her. This story reminds
us all what it is like to be young and naive to adult situations and adult
opinions. Sometimes parents leave children in the dark as a way to
"protect" them from the adults' own prejudices and familial embarrassments.
June, in her journey to uncover the
mystery that was her uncle, copes with death for the first time. Not only does
she miss Finn, but she is also dealing with her unconventional love for him.
June is elusive, somber, embarrassed, odd, confused, and ambiguous. As I the
reader tried to figure her out, June herself goes through self discovery. June
doesn't like to talk or ask questions for fear of looking or feeling stupid. I
found myself wanting to scream at her because she would ask questions in her
head rather than out loud. She is unsure of how to interact with people or form
relationships. The only person she could ever do this with was her uncle, which
perhaps is why she feels as though her love for him is strange or abnormal.
Her relationship with her sister is tedious at best. June and Greta deal with
becoming young women and they both grieve the end of their childhoods. Greta is
mean and cruel because she is hurting inside. She wants to be friends with her
sister, but the only way she knows how to interact with her is to be mean. As
someone who has two sisters, I found myself relating to their relationship. The
author did a phenomenal job of making their sister relationship authentic.
Sister relationships are some of the most complex relationships people have in
their entire lives. June and Greta despise and love each other in the same
moment as many sisters do.
June's mother was the most complex character. I find it interesting when
authors choose to make someone other than the narrator be very difficult to
figure out. All we get are the observations and descriptions given to us,
rather than first hand thoughts. I felt as if Mrs. Weiss was remorseful about
something, that there was something she had chosen to hide from her past about
her brother Finn. She carried around a large burden that her daughter could not
know.
I have never read a book like this. The character development was perplexing
and astounding. Now that I have finished the book I find myself wondering how
June and her family are doing. You MUST read this book.
I highlighted many quotes in this book and I want to share my favorites:
On Greta:
"Greta's talk is like a geode.
Ugly as anything on the outside and for the most part the same on the inside,
but every once in a while there's something that shines through." (p. 60)
On Greta, June and the painting:
"All I could see was me and
Greta shoved into that frame together. No matter what happened, the two of us
would always be trapped inside those four pieces of wood." (p. 52)
June on herself:
"I thought about myself from
head to toe. It was like being forced to read the most boring part of the Sears
catalog. Like leafing through the bathroom accessories pages. Boring brain.
Boring face. No sex appeal. Clumsy hands." (p. 194)
"I was doomed to
mediocrity." (p. 215)
"You get into habits. Ways of
being with certain people." (p. 221)
"I was the girl who never
understood who she was to people." (p. 236).
"Sometimes I go around
pretending I'm a medieval kid dropped into our time so that everything around
me looks strange and fresh and ridiculous. Okay? Now that you know just how
weird I am, you're free to laugh or tell all your friends or whatever..."
(p 169)
"Maybe all I wanted was for
Toby to hear the wolves that lived in the dark forest of my heart. And maybe
that's what it meant. Tell the Wolves I'm Home. Maybe Finn understood
everything, as usual. You may as well tell them where you live, because they'll
find you anyway. They always do." (p. 346)
On June's mother:
"How could someone act so
strong and normal and under it all be so desperate and sad." (p.
234)
"I needed to know that my
mother understood that her hand was in this too. That all the jealousy and envy
and shame we carried was our own kind of sickness. As much a disease as Toby
and Finn's AIDS." (p. 370)
Below is Erin's review of the book:
My
only disappointment with this novel was that I bought the iBook
version; I needed this book to be tangible. I needed to hold this book
the way it held me. "Wolves" had so many deeply haunting themes,
that I'm not sure I could touch on them all at once. This is a book I
need to keep coming back to, time and again.
I
have always loved period pieces- WWII, the 20’s, basically any story
that can take me back to another time, I enjoy. The setting of this
novel, in the height of the 1980‘s at the US’s first real awareness of
AIDS, was no exception. Off that bat, one might not consider this
“period novel”. It was, after all, not that long ago, chronologically
speaking. But socially, it was ages ago. It’s interesting to be thrust
into that time when AIDS was just emerging and there was so much
confusion and uncertainty.
In
addition to the setting, the characters are all phenomenal and very
well developed. This is something I base most of my “favorites” on-
character development. I loved how each of June’s family members has
their own personality that unfolds throughout the story. While June is
ultimately the main character, she serves as a vehicle for the others to
move and grow along with the story. Through her voice and observations,
we learn of her mother’s regret, her father’s sadness, and her sister’s
loneliness. It is through June’s keen, wise-beyond-her-years
observations that we learn of the details that make up each member of
her family and ultimately how they all function together as a “normal”
family, despite underlying feelings of sadness and remorse. Similarly,
it is through Toby’s character that we really get to know the dead Finn.
I loved this piece of writing- Finn is still a main character
throughout the novel, fully developing along with the rest of the
family, although he dies quite early on.
The
point that the author made to make the family fairly normal and
functioning, despite it’s controversy, was something I really took away
from this book. My initial instinct was to paint this family as
dysfunctional, to give a reason behind June’s eccentricities and her
sister, Greta’s loneliness. But that was not the case. They were a
typical American family made up of busy accountants and scared
teenagers. The main story line -June’s “wrong” love for her AIDS ridden
Uncle Finn- is a provocative subject that paved the way for more typical
traits of the American family: loving parents, busy and just slightly
too absent to keep close enough tabs on the kids, a sad teenager putting
on a brave face, and a quirky girl muddling through adolescence. I
found myself identifying with both sisters’ feelings of growing up
faster than they were ready. (This was another interesting thread: both
sisters ultimately in similar turmoil, but showing it in different
ways.)
In
the end, I was never quite sure whether or not June actually was “in
love” with her uncle, in the “wrong” way, or if she just deeply loved
him for the person he was and the person he made her feel she was.
Ultimately, despite this being the main story line, it didn’t matter.
All that mattered was that a loved family member was gone and the
remaining were left to move through life without him, each person
changed by Finn in some way.
This
is the book I have been waiting for all year. I recommend it to all.
Again, I wish I had the hard-back so I could share with fellow readers.
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